CLOSE ONE LOOP — LIVE · FREE WORKSHOP

How to Stop Being the Bigger Person

Why keeping the peace keeps costing you — and the conversation that changes it.

Tuesday, October 27 · 7:30 PM Mountain (6:30 Pacific · 8:30 Central · 9:30 Eastern)

50 minutes · Live on Zoom · Free

Camera optional. Nothing to prepare. Can't make it live? Register anyway and I'll send you the replay.

You're the one who rises above it.

You let the comment go. You smooth it over. You say yes when you mean not again.

And it works — for a while.

Then one day you notice the quiet resentment. The distance you can't explain.

The conversation you've rehearsed a hundred times and never had.

Being the bigger person isn't wrong.

But somewhere along the way, it stopped being a choice — and started being a role.

In 50 minutes you'll

Name it. The one place you've been the bigger person for too long — and what it's been quietly costing you.

See your part. Not to blame yourself. To find the part you can change.

Say the first sentence. Out loud, before it counts — and leave with your next move.

You won't fix everything in one night.

You'll close one loop. That's where it starts.

This is for you if

You're the calm one, the steady one, the one everyone counts on.

You keep the peace — and you're starting to feel what it costs.

There's a conversation you know you need to have, and you keep finding reasons to wait.

I'm Robin Quinn Keehn

Human Dynamics Specialist. Certified Mediator. Author of Stop Stealing From Yourself.

I spent years as the bigger person. I learned it from my mom — who always rose above it, always said yes. And the fruit of her labor was bitterness.

What changed everything for me wasn't blaming anyone.

It was seeing that I was choosing the role.

Which meant I could choose something else.

That's what this hour is about.

Free. Live. 50 minutes.

Bring the one you've been carrying.

Tuesday, October 27

7:30 PM Mountain (6:30 Pacific · 8:30 Central · 9:30 Eastern)